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Sexuality and cancer (ages 12 and 13)SSexuality and cancer (ages 12 and 13)Sexuality and cancer (ages 12 and 13)EnglishOncologyPre-teen (9-12 years);Teen (13-15 years);Late Teen (16-18 years)NANAHealthy living and preventionPre-teen (9-12 years) Teen (13-15 years) Late Teen (16-18 years)NA2019-09-03T04:00:00Z7.9000000000000062.6000000000000982.000000000000Flat ContentHealth A-Z<h2>What is sexuality?</h2><p>Sexuality is important. It is a normal and healthy part of being a human. Sexuality means having sexual feelings and experiences. Sexuality includes the following.</p><ul><li>Bodies and our reproductive organs</li><li>Biological sex assigned at birth (male or female): what physical body parts, chromosomes and hormones you have</li><li>Gender: whether you identify as being a boy, a girl, both, neither, or somewhere else along the gender spectrum (your gender may be the same as or different from the biological sex you were assigned at birth; gender can be a fluid definition and may change over time)</li><li>Sexual orientation: used to describe different types of sexual attraction, commonly categorized as:</li><ul><li>Heterosexuality: attraction between persons of opposite sex or gender</li><li>Homosexuality: attraction between persons of the same sex or gender</li><li>Bisexuality: attraction to both males and females</li><li>Pansexuality: attraction to people of any sex or gender</li><li>Asexuality: lack of sexual attraction to others</li></ul><li>Desire (or lack of desire) for sex</li></ul><p>We experience and express our sexuality through:</p><ul><li>our <a href="/Article?contentid=3532&language=English">body image</a></li><li>our sexual desires, fantasies, and the way we experience sexual pleasure</li><li>our sexual behaviours </li><li>sexual or intimate relationships</li><li>our beliefs and ideas about love and sexual relationships</li></ul><p>Our sexuality is influenced by many things, including our culture, family, community, experience, spirituality, religion and biology.</p>
La sexualité et le cancer (chez les adolescents de 12 et de 13 ans)LLa sexualité et le cancer (chez les adolescents de 12 et de 13 ans)Sexuality and cancer (ages 12 and 13)FrenchOncologyPre-teen (9-12 years);Teen (13-15 years);Late Teen (16-18 years)NANAHealthy living and preventionPre-teen (9-12 years) Teen (13-15 years) Late Teen (16-18 years)NA2019-09-03T04:00:00Z000Flat ContentHealth A-Z<h2>​​Qu’est-ce que la sexualité?</h2><p>La sexualité est un élément important de la nature même de l’être humain. La sexualité renvoie aux besoins et aux expériences sexuelles. Voici ce qui y est rattaché :<br></p><ul><li>le corps et les organes reproducteurs;<br></li><li>le sexe biologique assigné à la naissance (femme ou homme) : quelles parties du corps, quels chromosomes et quelles hormones dont tu es atteint;</li><li>le sexe : si tu t'identifie comme garçon, fille, les deux, ni garçon ni fille, ou quelque part d'autre au long du spectre sexospécifique (ton sexe peut être le même à ou différent du sexe biologique qu'on t'a assigné à la naissance; la définition de sexe peut être fluide et pourrait changer au fil du temps);<br></li><li>l'orientation sexuelle : décrit les différentes types d'attraction sexuelle. On les catégorise comme : </li><ul><li>l'hétérosexualité : l'attraction entre les personne de sexe biologique ou sexe opposé,<br></li><li>l'homosexualité : l'attraction entre les personnes du même sexe biologique ou sexe,<br></li><li>la bisexualité : l'attraction aux femmes aussi qu'aux hommes,<br></li><li>le pansexualité : l'attraction aux personnes de n'importe quel sexe biologique ou sexe,<br></li><li>l'asexualité : l'absence d'attraction aux autres;<br></li></ul><li>le désir (ou l’absence de désir) sexuel.<br></li></ul><p>Nous vivrons et exprimons notre sexualité par :</p><ul><li><a href="https://teens.aboutkidshealth.ca/fr/Article?contentid=3532&language=French">l'image de soi</a>;</li><li>nos désirs et fantasmes sexuels et la façon dont nous nous procurons du plaisir sexuel;</li><li>nos comportements sexuels;</li><li>nos relations sexuelles ou intimes;</li><li>nos croyances et idées concernant les relations amoureuses et sexuelles.</li></ul><p>De nombreux facteurs, dont la culture, la famille, la collectivité, le vécu, la religion, la spiritualité et la biologie, influent sur la sexualité.</p>

 

 

 

 

Sexuality and cancer (ages 12 and 13)3571.00000000000Sexuality and cancer (ages 12 and 13)Sexuality and cancer (ages 12 and 13)SEnglishOncologyPre-teen (9-12 years);Teen (13-15 years);Late Teen (16-18 years)NANAHealthy living and preventionPre-teen (9-12 years) Teen (13-15 years) Late Teen (16-18 years)NA2019-09-03T04:00:00Z7.9000000000000062.6000000000000982.000000000000Flat ContentHealth A-Z<h2>What is sexuality?</h2><p>Sexuality is important. It is a normal and healthy part of being a human. Sexuality means having sexual feelings and experiences. Sexuality includes the following.</p><ul><li>Bodies and our reproductive organs</li><li>Biological sex assigned at birth (male or female): what physical body parts, chromosomes and hormones you have</li><li>Gender: whether you identify as being a boy, a girl, both, neither, or somewhere else along the gender spectrum (your gender may be the same as or different from the biological sex you were assigned at birth; gender can be a fluid definition and may change over time)</li><li>Sexual orientation: used to describe different types of sexual attraction, commonly categorized as:</li><ul><li>Heterosexuality: attraction between persons of opposite sex or gender</li><li>Homosexuality: attraction between persons of the same sex or gender</li><li>Bisexuality: attraction to both males and females</li><li>Pansexuality: attraction to people of any sex or gender</li><li>Asexuality: lack of sexual attraction to others</li></ul><li>Desire (or lack of desire) for sex</li></ul><p>We experience and express our sexuality through:</p><ul><li>our <a href="/Article?contentid=3532&language=English">body image</a></li><li>our sexual desires, fantasies, and the way we experience sexual pleasure</li><li>our sexual behaviours </li><li>sexual or intimate relationships</li><li>our beliefs and ideas about love and sexual relationships</li></ul><p>Our sexuality is influenced by many things, including our culture, family, community, experience, spirituality, religion and biology.</p><h2>What is healthy sexuality?</h2><p>There are as many ways to express sexuality as there are people in this world. How you express your sexuality is completely up to you. Healthy sexuality is a source of pleasure and makes you feel good.</p><p>Central to healthy sexuality is a sense of personal control and agency. Personal control is the ability to make the choices that are right for you and agency is the ability to act on those choices, including giving consent, and define yourself sexually. To make smarter, safer choices that are right for you, you need to know the facts. Read on to learn more about healthy sexuality when you have or have had cancer.</p><p>At your age, sexuality is something that you are probably feeling and thinking about.</p><h2>How can cancer affect my sexuality?</h2><ul><li>Having any type of health condition can make you feel different from your peers and change how you see yourself.</li><li>Your experience with cancer can influence your social relationships and how you relate to others.</li><li>Cancer can impact your sex organs and sexual development. Treatment can affect how your sex organs function, including lowering the levels of your hormones. Treatment side effects may go away with time, or they may be permanent. Even though it can be hard to talk about this, discussing it with a member of your health-care team is a good idea because they can tell you about the therapies that are available.</li><li>Pain resulting from cancer or treatment can reduce your interest in sex and the pleasure you experience.</li><li>Cancer and treatment can impact your body image and confidence and how attractive you feel, as well as your sexual desire.</li><li>If you have spent a lot of time in the hospital or away from your peers, you might have missed sexual health education at school. Your peers are just starting to learn how to flirt or talk with people they might be interested in romantically.</li><li>Some of the medications you’re on to treat your cancer may also be in your bodily fluids. There are no worries about holding hands, but ask someone on your health-care team if it is safe to kiss or engage in other sexual activities.</li></ul><p>If you've had treatment recently, it's important to give yourself time to recover. There are often ways of dealing with the effects of cancer and treatment on your sexuality. Remember that everyone’s sexuality is affected in different ways. Sometimes it is not affected at all. How you feel now will also likely change over time.</p><h2>What do I need to know to make safer choices about sex?</h2><p>To answer this question, we've compiled a list of common myths about sex after cancer and included the facts to help you make safer decisions.</p><h3>Myth: Radiation or chemotherapy will make me unable to have, or father, a baby.</h3><p>Fact: Even if you have had chemotherapy and/or radiation, you may still be able to get pregnant or make someone pregnant.</p><p>It can take a long time after treatment has ended for your health-care team to know with any certainty whether you are fertile or not, especially as many people in your age group have not yet become fertile. Your treatment may also affect the development of a baby inside the uterus.</p><p>For more information on treatment and fertility, check out "<a href="/Article?contentid=3475&language=English">Fertility and radiation</a>".</p><h3>Myth: I'm using the birth control pill to control heavy periods, so I can't get pregnant.</h3><p>Fact: Cancer treatment can make birth control less effective.</p><p>Ask your health-care team if your medication will affect how well your birth control works.</p><h3>Myth: I beat cancer, so nothing can hurt me now!</h3><p>Fact: You can still get a sexually transmitted infection (STI) whether you have had cancer or not! </p><p>You don't get STIs from holding hands or kissing, but if you are considering more intimate sexual activities, you need to find out how to prevent an STI. Respect yourself and protect yourself.</p><h3>Myth: My questions are too weird or embarrassing. I just can't ask anybody!</h3><p>Fact: Chances are that if you're wondering about something, many other teens are wondering about it too!</p><p>Most questions that teens with cancer have about sex are the same as those asked by other teens. When it comes to sexuality, it's normal to feel different! Talking about it with a trusted friend, family member or member of your health-care team can help. The <a href="/Article?contentid=3502&language=English">communication section</a> has tips for how to arrange a meeting with a member of your health-care team alone (without your parent/caregiver). </p><h2>Should I tell my partner I had cancer (if they don't already know)?</h2><p>This is, of course, up to you. But ask yourself this question: If I don't feel comfortable telling a person the truth about a major experience in my life, do I feel comfortable being sexual with them?</p><h2>I still have questions!</h2><p>Well of course you do! Sexuality is a huge topic for all teenagers! It's normal to have questions. Finding answers is part of becoming an adult and discovering your own sexuality. This section only offers a very quick introduction. Many websites can help you develop a healthy sexuality. Here are a few good ones:</p><ul><li> <a href="https://www.macmillan.org.uk/information-and-support/audience/teens-and-young-adults/relationships-sex-fertility">​Macmillan Cancer Support – Relationships, sex and fertility</a>: A section of a UK-based site about cancer that offers advice about sex, fertility, and relationships especially for teens and young adults</li><li> <a href="https://www.scarleteen.com/">Scarleteen</a>: An American site offering real-world sex education and advice online</li><li> <a href="https://www.sexandu.ca/">Sex & U</a>: A Canadian site that takes a real life approach to questions and issues around sex and sexuality</li><li> <a href="http://teenhealthsource.com/">Teen Health Source​</a>: A site from Planned Parenthood that will help you learn about safer sex and healthy exploration</li></ul>https://assets.aboutkidshealth.ca/AKHAssets/Sexuality_and_cancer_(ages_12_and_13).jpg